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4 LOMPOC RECORD Mar. 4. 1971 Durham-Lackett wedding is held Methodist Church ML. 4 Mr and Mrs Richard Lackett oivera photo Chambers was Lompoc first student to go on the AFS American Abroad program, spending a summer in Chile as he attended school. Local support of the student program comes largely through ways and means projects such as the weekend rummage sale.

Offered will be useable clothing, household linens, furniture, appliances and many other items. Sale hours will be from 9 a.m. -6 p.m on Friday; 9 a -12 noon on Saturday. CHECKING rX)NATIONS lor the American Field Service rummage sale to be held this Friday and Saturday at Lompoc Grange Hall. 435 N.

are from left: Patti Jacobs. Miriam Segovia and Mark Chambers of Lompoc High School Chapter AFS Miss Jacobs, a junior, awaits word from the International AFS committee on her application for foreign exchange study. Miss Segovia is living this school term with the Joe Salucci family as she attends Lompoc High School under the AFS program. Local Toastmistress hear Dear Abby She gets no support from mom on bra issue analysis of the Pledge indivisible incapable of being Truly thought-provoking was the analysis given by Winnie Massey to Lompoc Toastmistress last week on the Pledge to the Flag: 1 me. an individual, a committee of one.

pledge dedicate all my wordly goods, to give without is ritual setting Exchanging marriage vows Saturday afternoon, Feb. 27, were Miss Jeannette Charlotte Durham and Richard Whit worth Lackett. Officiating at the double ring ceremony in First United Methodist Church was the Rev. Robert Montgomery. Parents of the bride are Mr.

and Mrs. George A. Durham. 218 S. St.

The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Dorothy Holder of Roseville Escorted by her lather, the bride wore a white organza wedding gown with empire bodice of lace, full sleeves with three inch lace cuffs, and a skirt flowing into a lace trimmed train. A gift of her bridegroom was the necklace she wore. White stephanolis, tangerine and yellow baby 's breath and yellow sweetheart roses fashioned her bridal bouquet. Serving as matron of honor was Mrs James Dix of San Francisco.

Bridesmaids were Mrs. Jerome Churchill of Mountain View and Mrs Larry Pannkuk of San Mateo. Tangerine crepe fashioned their long sleeved gowns with delicate trim of yellow at the neckline. Each wore a floral spray of tangerine in her hair. Yellow daffodils, tangerine and yellow baby's breath fashioned their bouquets.

Attending the bridegroom as best man was David Marcott of Sacramento. Ushers were Ralph Cain of Sacramento and Jerome Churchill of Mountain View. John David Marcott of Sacramento was the ring bearer. Mrs. Richard Madison was the nuptial organist.

Duane Baker, soloist Selections included "The Lord's Prayer" and "They Have Just Begun." Following the wedding reception for 75 guests in Grange Hall, the newlyweds left for a honeymoon in Carmel and San Francisco. The new home will be in Carmichael. The bridels a graduate of Lompoc High School class of '65 and San Francisco State College in 1970 She is a member of Pi Mu Music Society. A registered nurse, she is employed at the Sacramento Medical Center. A graduate of Norde Del Rio High School, the bridegroom is presently attending American River Jr.

College. Bridge play Results of the duplicate bridge tournaments during the past week in the Lompoc-Vandenberg area were: Thursday Feb. 25 North-South: Mary Louise Wallace and Eileen Niesen, first; Jim Longtin and Alex Turner, -second; Muriel Hennessy and Flo Fisher, third; Grace Probst and Ruth Strube. fourth. East-West: Patti Ausbrooks and Mike Palmer, first; Ruth and Herschel Roberts, second; Jefna Longtin and Marie Richie, third; Donna Swinnea and Mary Tripp, fourth.

Saturday, Feb. 27 North-South: Theresa Turnbull and Mary Louise Wallace, first; Ruth and Herschel Roberts, second; Jim Longtin and Flo Fisher, third. East-West: Joe Gowenlock and Lloyd Hanson, first; Barbara Holt and Jefna Longtin, second, Mickie Alven and Sally Cullen, third. Monday March 1 Muriel Hennessy and Wally Lowry, tied with Pat Ward and Alice Organ for first and second; Minnie Zvolanek and Alice Swanson, third; Jack Shepard and Norbert Baumgarten, fourth. Tuesday, March 2 North-South: Myra Larsen and Muriel Hennessy, first; Norbert Baumgarten and Mickie Alven, second; Dan Boone and Tom Preece, third; Don Ausbrooks "and DonCohn, fourth.

East-West: Ruth Roth and Doris Florow, first; Ruth Strube and Bill Rudman, second; Mary Tripp and Ruth Ballantyne, third; G. Stoll and H. K. Nakagawa, fourth. Don Ausbrooks will conduct duplicate bridge lessons beginning Sunday, March 7, at 7 p.m.

in the Alpha Clubhouse on alternate Saturday and Sunday nights with lVz hour of instruction, then duplicate play. For more information he may be called at RE3-2832 or 6-2381. Regular games are held at the Alpha Clubhouse, Ocean Ave. and St every Thursday and on the second and fourth Saturday at 7:30 p.m.; the first and third Sunday at 7 p.m. and every Monday at 1 p.m.

Every Tuesday night at 7: 15 p.m. a game is held at the Vandenberg Officers' Club. Anyone interested in any game may call RE6-8050 for further information. Quota Club marks national founding Observing the 52nd anniversary of Quota International, members of Lompoc Quota Club cut a special cake last week at meeting in the Valley Club. Providing the opportunity of sharing was Marian Gugenheim, club secretary.

"Friendship, Service and Sharing. Happy Anniversary 1919-1971" was the inscription in blue icing. my love, my allegiance devotion DEAR MOTHER: I don think you and your sister in law are communicating. I am sure your sister in law would rather have her daughter "alive in any shape," too. But if she actually would rather see her daughter dead than the living victim of a rapist, I think she could be out of her mind.

DEAR ABBY: I'd like to make a comment on the My Lai incident: I served in Vietnam at the same time as Lt. Calley. (Same division, samebrigade, but different battalion, What that man and his men are being tried for was, and probably still is, an everyday occurrence over there. I have seen so many of these peaceful people murdered, raped and beaten 1 thought I'd go crazy before I got out of that country. No single similar occurrence in my unit was on so large a scale as My Lai, but if I were to total all the men, women and children we shot Earl Panner is newly elected YMCA president Earl Panner, 4490 Sinus Vandenberg Village, is the newly named president of Lompoc Valley YMCA.

Also elected at the annual dinner meeting in Lions Inn were Frank Chilberto, vice president; Bruce Sharpe, second vice president Bob Coe, treasurer. New board members include Joe Carlin, Jim Kenna, Jack Olson, Don McPherson, Annie Petersen. Gloria Ernberg, Murray Lester, Jim Preece, Bob Orr, Fred Smith, Col. Clarence Holloway and Mary Soper. Continuing board members include Orville Erdman, retiring president; Roger Plante, Tom Chrones, the Rev.

Harold Drain. Sally Walker, Frank Piemme. Char Murdy, Paul Olson and Dick Martin. For outstanding work and service to the YMCA for the last six years, Lt. Col.

(Ret. I Thomas Chrones was presented with the 1970 YMCA volunteer award. Dental technician is guest speaker for Xi Lambda Iota Kristine Carnathan. dental technician, was the guest speaker for the bi-monthly meeting of Xi Lambda Iota Chapter ot Beta Sigma Phi Sorority. Her subject, "Physical Fitness," expanded on the personal health and well being of the adult, how to culvitate new interests stimulating enthusiasm, thus avoiding boredom.

Years need not age the she stated. Kristine is the daughter of CMSgt. and Mrs. Frank Carnathan, Vandenberg Air Force Base. Mrs.

Hector Samaniego, president, conducted a short business meeting. Elections of new officers will be held on March 25. Mrs. JBill Ruckman, ways and means chairman, told of plans for an all day work shop to be held Saturday to work on chocolate Easter egg candies. This is the chapter's only money raising project.

Funds derived from the sales support the sorority's various local activities and nursing scholarships awarded each year to senior girls from Lompoc and Cabrillo High Schools. The 40th anniversary of Beta Sigma Phi will be celebrated in April with a luncheon at the Lompoc Valley Bowl. All five chapters in the area will participate in the event The state convention will be held in Fresno this year, May 21-23. Six chapter members plan to attend. Mrs.

John Davison was hostess for the meeting, and Mrs. Jerry Long, co-hostess. A floral arrangement of spring flowers centered the refreshment table from which cake, coffee and tea were served. divided with liberty which is the freedom, the right or power to live one's own life without fear, threats or some sort of retaliation justice the quality of dealing fairly with others for all which means that it is as much your country as it is mine or anyone else's Program theme of the evening was "Speaking Topicmistress Lyda Jenkins led members on the subject "Good speech-making." Lorraine Holmes, toastmistress of the evening, introduced Natalie Arnold with a workshop. "The Art of Listening.

Other program participants included Laura Atkins as jokemistress, Betty Kline as timer. A guest of Gene (Mrs. Walter i Holmdahl was Mable Rupp. Planning to attend the speech contest of Santa Maria Toastmistress Club March 9 are Minnie Vilkaitis, local president; Winnie Massey, Fran Houston, Laura Atkin, Lorraine Holmes, Betty Klein and Gail Benson. Next meeting of Lompoc Toastmistress will be held Thursday, March 11 at the Golden Greek Restaurant.

Unique is way of judging hobby displays A unique system of judging will be that of Lompoc Community Woman's Club as they conduct a hobbies arts and craft contest March 10. Occasion will be the club's monthly luncheon Wednesday at Lions Inn. Members are requested to exhibit examples of their hobby interests. Suggested are ceramics, jewelry, Knitting, crocheting, embroidery, resin items, paintings, re-finished wood items, dolls and clothing and sewing of all kinds. Each member will pass the line of displays, voting for first and second place A first place vote will be' indicated through their donation of a nickel, second place, through donation of a penny.

Scheduled are demonstrations by Mrs. C.K. Chilson, making paper roses; Mrs. Richard Henning, weaving; Mrs. Fred Smith, ceramics.

Other exhibitors may be asked methods of making their items and are asked to be prepared with a price quote or 'no sale' reply should others wish to buy Those planning to exhibit are asked to call Mrs. Leslie (Rose) Mcintosh, program chairman, at 6-1325. Also on the club calendar is the annual Escort Dinner Saturday, March 13, at Lions Inn. DEAR ABBY: My daughter and 1 are in total disagreement over a matter I wish you would settle. Becky i made-up name) is 19.

which makes her an authority on everything. She attends college away from home. Becky now goes braless and says most of her girlfriends do, too. When Becky was home for vacation she wore a bra only as a concession to me, but she wasn't happy about it. I should explain that Becky is full-bosomed.

I told Becky that common sense should tell her that a full-bosomed girl needs to wear a bra for support, and if she goes without that support, in time all her muscles and tissues will be stretched and broken down and she will look like an old cow. Becky says I am all wrong and old-fashioned. Abby, will you please tell her? She won't listen to me, and I don't want to be in a position of telling her, "I told you so," if she winds up wearing a size 42 Quadruple cup by the time she's 30. If I am wrong I will shut up. But if I'm right, I'd like her to find out before it is too late.

MIDWEST MOM DEAR MOM: If Beckv's bra size is 34B or larger, she needs a bra for support. (P.S. More women look like "old cows" because they wore ill-fitting bras rather than none at all. DEAR ABBY: Please tell me who is right. I have a teen-age daughter who will soon be ready for dating.

I have a sister in law who has a daughter the same age. We were talking, and I told my sister in law that if a boy ever tried to take my daughter's virtue against her will, I would rather have her submit and come out of it unharmed than to put up a struggle and perhaps get killed. Even if my daughter were to become pregnant we could bear it together, but I would rather have my daughter alive in any shape. My sister in law thinks I am out of my mind. What's your opinion? A LOVING MOTHER P.E.O.

schedules officer election Election of officers is the highlight for the next meeting of Chapter SQ of P. E. O. Those completing a year in office include Mrs. Gary D.

Goodwin, president; Mrs. Bruce C. Rinker, vice president; Mrs. Robert Scott, secretary; Mrs. Allen Holliday, corresponding secretary; Mrs.

Felix Scheffler, treasurer; Mrs. Eugene McAllister, Chaplain; and Mrs. Louis J. Finis, guard. Members will meet in the home of Mrs.

Robert Scott, 528 North First Tuesday, March 9 at 9 :30a.m. All visiting and unaffiliated P.E.O.s are invited to attend and asked to call the hostess at 6-8031. because they looked like V.C. in the age group between 15 and 40 or were too scared to stand still when we approached, you could double the number as were killed at My Lai. I am not defending Lt.

Calley, I am only saying that if the Army and the people must judge that man and his men then they had better judge me and the three million other men that pulled time in that hell-hole. I learned one thing. Life over there is no more worth the time and effort it takes to pull the trigger. BEEN THERE DEAR BEEN: Thank you, soldier. And to the American people as a whole, I say, "Judge not lest ye be judged!" Friends celebrate with Mrs.

Stockton Four daughters were hostesses Sunday afternoon at a birthday -party for Mrs. Margaret Stockton, 89, of 120 S. St. Assisting Ava Sudden, Louise Anderson, Alyce Moore and Marcena Collar was a friend, Fern DeGroot. to the flag Our standard.

Old Glory, the symbol of freedom. Wherever she waves there is respect because your loyalty has given it a dignity that shouts that freedom is everybody's job. United meaning that all come together States individual communities united. Fifty great states with pride, dignity and purpose. Fifty separate communities divided with imaginary boundaries and yet united for a common purpose and that is love for country.

Republic a state in which a sovereign power is invested in the representatives chosen by the people to govern. And government is the people, and it is from the people to the leaders not from the leaders to the people for which it stands, one nation under God meaning so blessed by God Pupils ride train Surf to San Luis A very special field trip was the train ride taken by pupils of the Jessie Ramming School last week from Surf to San Luis Obispo. Accompanying the boys and girls were Mr. and Mrs. John Wallenburg.

Mrs. Gary Dunlap, Mrs. Linda Reedy and Mrs. Ramming. Lunch was eaten at the station before boarding the train.

Songs and stories kept the group entertained enroute. Met at San Luis Obispo by representatives of the United Methodist Church, the group was taken to the local museum for a tour under the escort of the curator. From there, the party went to the mission where they had a guided tour of the buildings and garden grounds. The 24 children and their chaperones walked through town to the park and hence to -the railroad station for the return trip home. Enjoying the afternoon excursion were Andy Puckett, Matthew and Kenny Williams, Trudy Turner, Carol Ramming, Helen Williamson, Marty Melson, Bobbie and Gary McCool, David Knackstedt, Mark, Paul and Marie-Lise Bouscaren, Karen Montgomery, Becky Geisen, Francie Sharpe, Scott French, Bill Wilbur, Dee Dee and Scotty Reedy, Scott and Lisa Wallenburg, Robin DeSoto and Clarence Morris, Arriving to help the honore celebrate at the informal party were approximately 30 local friends.

A special guest was her daughter in- law, Mrs. Emma Stockton of Oceano. Tulips, daisies, Dutch iris and other spring blooms fashioned the table centerpiece. Topping the anniversary cake decorated in pink and green were miniature animated animal toys. The gift of friends were floral corsages for Mrs.

Stockton one a gardenia, the other a cymbidium blossom. A Lompoc pioneer, Mrs. Stockton and her family came to Lompoc in 1925 from Cloud County, Kansas. The next meeting will be March 11 in the home of Mrs. George Searson..